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I’ve been trying to get back into the swing of things. Prioritizing, organizing, productivity, completion… I used to never have a problem with getting things done but the past two years it’s proven to be more difficult than I’d remembered. I currently have several projects that I’m working on simultaneously, so needless to say, they’re all unfinished. There are days I just stare at a blank Word document, and even getting a few paragraphs down is torturous. Writing shouldn’t feel that way…writing has always come easily for me, flowed freely.

I’ve always said I don’t believe in writer’s block…I suppose after much analyzing, I discovered the source of my problems. Focus and Fear. Let me explain…

FOCUS: My biggest crutch is being a little scattered. I want to do everything that inspires me at the moment so I have too many options and no specific goal. I have a tendency to be an overachiever, but when it’s not garnering results, I need to stop and re-evaluate. So that’s what I’m doing…figuring out what is a priority and just tackle it. That’s when I mapped out a plan and I’m holding myself accountable for it. My goal is to increase my output and really get back into the writing rhythm that I once had. I’ve worked too damn hard to fall to pieces.

FEAR: My writing sucks. Not long ago I re-released a book I’d written in 2009 and it was a real eye-opener. The  current reviews were brutal. When the original version was released back then, I’d gotten 4 and 5 star reviews across the board from very reputable review sites including RT Book Reviews…I’d been so proud of myself since it was my debut…but at that time readers loved and understood my voice. These days, writing has simply changed. What do I mean by that? My voice is sort of a hybrid between women’s fiction and straight up contemporary. It’s lyrical, yet angsty and humorous. Hmm, I guess it’s who I am so I can’t really change that… I also blame it on my screenwriting background and my love of “dramadies” (drama-comedies). However, I’ve noticed that today’s voice is much different. It’s more in your face writing with less descriptive passages (which is what I tend to do), more dialogue driven and plenty of action. Again, after mulling over why my book was getting such negative reviews, I discovered something interesting..with the explosion of the New Adult genre, my book happened to fall into that realm because of my character’s age group. Totally by accident, but reviewers who picked up my book was looking for that particular style or voice, and I wasn’t delivering what they usually expected. Hence all the horrific reviews and DNF responses. Ouch. Sure it hurt like hell but at least I figured it out and there was no going back from it. I could either cry my eyes out, accept it, and/or learn from it…but what I promised I wouldn’t do is give into the pressures of changing my voice just to sell a product. I don’t want to feel like a sellout and disappoint myself in the process. I stand firm because of my love of writing so I’m not going to change my writing voice because it represents who I am as a writer. I guess you can say the fear of sucking made me look deep inside myself and see that I’m a good writer. We all have our insecurities but I’m not a beginner. I’ve finished books and I continue to get new readers who buy my backlist. I know I still have a lot of growth ahead of me but I have fans who email me and remind me of why I should keep writing. I also discovered that I don’t want to compromise my vision and storytelling to satisfy a trend. With everything, I know it’s cyclical so those who may hate my voice and my novels now may someday appreciate what I’ve written…may better understand that everything I write has a secret meaning that’s not blatantly on the surface. This is the profession I’ve chosen and no matter what obstacles I face in this journey…I will stick it out. I will conquer these fears (ones every writer has) and prove to myself that I made the right decision.

During my self-evaluation process, I’ve been voraciously reading and watching videos that inspire me. I recently discovered Matthew Hussey who is an awesome (and sexy as all get out Brit) life/relationship coach… Total hero material for one of my future books…Ahem, he’s brilliant and I’d love to be able to go to one of his retreats someday…but for now, I thought I’d share this snippet. It came at the perfect time and I hope you’ll agree that all things are worth finishing.


  • Ari Michaels

    “This is the profession I’ve chosen and no matter what obstacles I face in this journey…I will stick it out. I will conquer these fears (ones every writer has) and prove to myself that I made the right decision.”

    ^^^ A thousand times THAT. I seriously don’t know a single writer who has not faced this issue and repeatedly (it truly is cyclical). And deciding at some point to be true to your authentic writerly voice, to remember why you love the process of writing…yeah. In the end, we write to the ones who DO love our voice for what it is. This is a huge market, there’s something out there for everyone–might as well do what we’re best at, what we love, and those who appreciate it will keep it worth it. 🙂

    Also, that video is awesome–I’ll have to check more of his work out. Great post…good luck sticking it out and happy writing! 😀

  • Jax

    Thanks for stopping by Ari! Can you believe it took me so long to figure out this truth? Haha. I think we’re sharing the same brain on this topic. I know that when you embrace your profession and why you do what you do, it’s the kind of success that keeps you going.

  • Fiona Riplee

    I’m so glad I found your post. It is exactly what I needed at this moment to get me motivated to work on edits that I’ve been putting off for some time now. It’s absolutely about fear. The fear that the writing is so terrible that no amount of edits can fix it. It’s also about being true to yourself. I’m glad that you are writing for you and not what pressures are convincing you to write. The post and video are very inspirational. Thanks!

  • Jax

    I’m so happy you found me, Fiona. I really need to do more current posts but I’ve been busy trying to get my writing career back on track. I’m glad this came at a good time for you. Writers need to stick together and support one another in this journey, that’s for sure! 🙂

  • Traci Kenworth

    I can understand your anguish, I’ve gone through a similar problem this past year, albeit I’m still not published. I guess the frustration of not being where I wanted to be as a writer got to me and it held me back from being able to write. I hope not to repeat that experience. I’m just taking it one day at a time, learning as much as I can and striving to do my best. 😉

  • Dirk

    Thanks for sharing…as I know you know, it is not how you start that matters…it’s how you finish & how you define success. Also…your message, whatever it is, grows as you do. Press on with an expectant heart & a unique truth available only to you will emerge. In time, you will craft it into a statement only you can make….he said as he walks into his own buzz saw… 😉